I'm not sure that being a Mum or getting married are priorities for me, at least in the short-term. I have years of study to go, I also work, and while I date, I'm not looking for a permanent relationship. I'm far too committed to my career right now so it's highly unlikely that in the next 10 - 15 years I'll even be in a position to seriously consider if I have the time needed to devote to a committed relationship, let alone having children.
Even if that happened, over half of marriages today fail, so a child has less than 50% of a chance of being raised by two parents in a happy loving home. I believe very strongly that a single parent family is intrinsically flawed and not conducive to raising happy, well adjusted, self disciplined children.
I don't mean to upset Single Mums or Dad's, whether they be single by choice or by situation. Single parenting is a very difficult role to take on and I admire them for their tenacity but the evidence is out there to see. These kids, more often than not are going to have relationship and other issues as they get older. That's not to say that they all have issues, some children are resilient enough to come through unscathed but not often enough to take a chance on it.
Additionally, a few decades ago childhood was an innocent, beautiful, free time but it isn't any more. We live in a world of uncertainty, a dangerous world and I can't see that situation getting any better. I don't want to subject a child to that experience.
If, at a later date I was in a position conducive to raising children I would most prefer to foster children who have experienced abuse or neglect. They need us to have a chance at happiness.
